Nobody loses themselves in a relationship all at once. It happens quietly. You skip the plans you used to love because they might not like them. You soften your opinion before you've even finished forming it. You check their mood before you check your own. And one day you look up and realize you can't remember the last time you did something just because you wanted to. If that feels familiar, I want you to hear this first: nothing is wrong with you. Losing yourself usually st